“Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.”
Psalm 27:14 (KJV)
As I sat in the airport, it suddenly dawned on me how much waiting is involved in the journey. Waiting for luggage to be inspected. Waiting to board the plane. Waiting to land. Waiting to disembark.
At each interval, I found myself taking a deep breath and reminding myself to be patient. So many thoughts rushed through my mind, but in that moment, the Lord gently reminded me that what looked like waiting was actually Him ordering my footsteps.
How often do we become impatient or frustrated with the process? Scripture encourages us to wait on the Lord and be of good courage—not angry, not discouraged, but full of faith.
To be of good courage means to remain hopeful, appreciative, and trusting, even while we wait.
As we walk through different seasons of life, let us remember this truth: waiting is not wasted when God is at work. As we wait on the Lord, He strengthens our hearts—making us stronger, steadfast, and established.
Affirmation: I will wait on God with faith, courage, and trust.
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end".
Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV)
As we step into a new year, we are reminded of how blessed we truly are. Although 2025 brought challenges, we are grateful to be standing in 2026—alive, hopeful, and still walking in purpose.
It is often tradition at the start of a new year to look back and reflect. This kind of introspection is not bad. It helps us see where we have grown and where we may have fallen short. However, reflection becomes harmful when we get stuck in mistakes, regrets, or disappointments.
We are blessed because we have another year and another day—an opportunity to live our best lives, to make decisions that please God, to move beyond past failures, and to continue growing. The enemy would love for us to remain discouraged, feeling sorry for ourselves, trapped in disappointment. But God’s Word is clear.
God has good thoughts toward us.
He has wonderful plans for us.
There is an expected end—one filled with His favor, blessings, and promises.
So as we reflect and plan this week, let us remember: God has good things stored up for us. As Scripture reminds us, “Forgetting those things which are behind, and pressing forward to the high calling of God…”
Affirmation: I will not stay in 2025 thinking about failures and disappointments. I will press forward into the good plans God has in store for me. Amen!
“But my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:19 (KJV)
Sometimes we get so caught up in what we need or desire. We make our lists and plans, work our budgets, and set goals for what we want to accomplish. We look at our paychecks, check our 401(k)s, and may even do estate planning.
In the process, we can become so focused on our needs, wants, and desires that we forget about God. We can get caught up in thinking that we are the providers. However, this scripture gently reminds us that it is God who supplies all our needs.
Yes, we work—but it is God who gives us the strength to work. It is God who gives us the ability, the intelligence, and the favor to obtain and keep jobs, access resources, and generate income. Everything flows from Him.
Ladies, God wants us to remember that everything belongs to Him. Nothing we have is by our own strength or power. It is by His grace, His mercy, and His favor that our Father moves on our behalf—and for that, we are truly blessed.
At times, it may feel like we are lacking or that abundance is out of reach, but even then, God is still providing. He has never stopped being faithful.
As we prepare to enter this new year, let us remember that everything comes from God, and may we remain eternally grateful, trusting Him fully in every season.
Affirmation: Lord, I will no longer take credit for what You do. You are my eternal Provider. I trust You fully and thank You for all You supply.
"But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me."
Matthew 14:30 (KJV)
Ladies, there comes a time when we all face the spirit of fear. Fear is real—it is a spirit—but God has given us power and authority over all unclean spirits. As I reflect on the path the Lord laid before me, I recognized how subtly the enemy attempted to introduce fear. His tactics were quiet, yet intentional. He did not desire for me to fulfill my destiny or walk fully in my purpose—especially because of the people connected to it.
Fear’s assignment is to stop us, delay us, and divert us from doing what God has spoken. When fear enters, doubt begins to grow.
In Matthew 14, Jesus had just received the news that John the Baptist was beheaded. After ministering to the multitude, He instructed His disciples to get into the boat and go ahead of Him. While they were on the water, fear presented itself twice.
The first time was when the disciples saw Jesus walking on the water and assumed He was a spirit. But Jesus immediately reassured them, saying, “Be of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid.”
Peter, bold in faith, said, “Lord, if it is You, bid me to come to You on the water.” Jesus simply replied, “Come.” In obedience, Peter stepped out—and something miraculous happened. He walked on the water. In that moment, he experienced the sustaining power of Jesus and did not sink.
But when Peter focused on the boisterous wind, fear and doubt overtook him, and he began to sink. It wasn’t the water that caused him to sink—it was fear.
The wind represents the circumstances of life—those moments when things feel turbulent and overwhelming. These moments give us a choice: will fear take over, or will faith rise up?
To Peter’s credit, he cried out, “Lord, save me.” Immediately, Jesus reached out and caught him. He did not allow Peter to sink.
It is so important that we cry out to the Lord when we feel overwhelmed, afraid, or uncertain. Jesus is faithful to respond. He rescues. He restores. He sustains.
Then Jesus asked Peter, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?”
That question speaks to us today.
Why do we doubt when God has clearly called us? Why do we pull back when adversity arises?
When fear causes us to call on the Lord, we will always find that His hand is already extended.
Affirmation: Today, I make a commitment not to allow fear to stop me. When fear arises, I will call on the Lord and trust Him to help me.
"I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth."
Revelation 3:15 (KJV)
I was at lunch the other day with two friends, laughing and talking, when our conversation naturally turned to the Lord. We began discussing the importance of making a decision to serve Him—or not. One of my friends referenced the scripture in Revelation about being neither hot nor cold, and the danger of living “on the fence.”
As she spoke, something resonated deeply in my spirit about the fence itself. The fence is often just an excuse to delay a decision. It feels like a place of safety—I can jump on either side when I’m ready. But in reality, the fence represents indecision, and indecision is a decision.
Scripture reminds us, “If God be God, serve Him; and if Baal be Baal, serve him.” There is no neutral ground in the kingdom. Jesus addressed this very issue when speaking to the churches in Revelation. He warned that being lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—was unacceptable. He said that because they were lukewarm, He would spew them out.
The fence may feel safe, but tomorrow is not promised. The Word reminds us that life is a mist—here today and gone tomorrow. Delaying a decision is dangerous, because waiting assumes time we are not guaranteed.
Ladies, I want to encourage you: as long as you have breath in your body, you can choose. Choose Jesus now, while you can. Don’t wait for a better moment, a clearer season, or more certainty. The moment is now.
Another scripture tells us that a double-minded person is unstable in all their ways. In this season, God is calling His people to have a made-up mind. Half-hearted faith, delayed obedience, and fence-sitting will no longer suffice.
The fence is not neutral ground—it is the most dangerous place to be.
Choose today whom you will serve.
Affirmation: Today, I choose Jesus. I choose Him with my whole heart, my whole mind, and my whole life.
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”
Ephesians 4:32 (KJV)
Recently, while meditating on the things of God, the Holy Spirit began stirring my heart about forgiveness. As I sat in His presence, He gently brought to mind people and situations that had caused me pain. I immediately thought, “I’ve already forgiven them.” But in that moment, He revealed something deeper — forgiveness often comes in layers.
Yes, I had forgiven them for what they did. But without realizing it, I had also built walls to guard my heart from being hurt again. It was impressed on me that it is not my role to shut my heart down for protection — my role is to forgive, surrender, and allow God to do the guarding.
I began reflecting on those painful memories, the ones I had tucked away. He wasn’t exposing them to shame me — He was inviting me into healing. To truly forgive meant allowing Him into every area — even the hidden places. That kind of surrender can feel vulnerable, but the Holy Spirit is always gentle. He never forces; He invites, reveals truth, and guides us toward wholeness.
So I surrendered. I let Him perform surgery on my heart and mind. And in that process, I learned something beautiful:
Forgiveness is not just releasing others — it is allowing God to access the places we tried to protect ourselves.
Ladies, God has faithfully forgiven us each time we came to Him with godly sorrow. He never revisits what we confessed — He washes it away. He is loving, kind, and patient. As His children, we are called to reflect that same heart to others. We must also learn to forgive ourselves. Many times, we hold ourselves hostage because we feel we allowed others to take advantage of us or because we “should have known better.”
But Scripture reminds us:
Romans 3:23 (KJV) “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God.”
Ladies, the truth is — we have all messed up, but God has forgiven us and continues to be gracious toward us. This does not mean we must rekindle unhealthy or damaging relationships, but it does mean we are commanded to walk in the love of Christ — toward those who have blessed us and toward those who have wronged us.
So ladies, maybe this week we can do a heart check and pray:
“Holy Spirit, show me where there may be hidden unforgiveness. Deal with me in this area.”
Affirmation: Today I choose to surrender my forgiveness process and allow God to heal my heart.
The Steps of a Good Man Are Ordered by the Lord
“The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.”
Psalm 37:23 (KJV)
Ladies, what do you do when the plan you crafted with sincerity and expectation turns out not to be the plan God intended? What happens when everything you built, poured into, and envisioned suddenly shifts in a direction you never imagined?
This is a place I recently found myself in. For seven years, my spouse and I served faithfully in pastoral ministry—preaching, teaching, shepherding, and covering those God entrusted to us. Then God spoke something that shook the foundation of our expectations:
“Shut it down for a season.”
It wasn’t punishment.
It wasn’t failure.
It was God ordering new steps.
That “season” became a one-year sabbatical—a year filled with God’s fingerprints in ways we had not anticipated. It became a year of:
• Healing in hidden places
• New births in vision and identity
• Loss and grief that humbled us
• Renewed fellowship with the Lord
• A reset that positioned us for what was next
Then came the most unexpected step of all: a cross-country relocation to a place we’d never been, surrounded by people we had never met. Yet when the Lord orders your steps, He also orders your path—even when it leads you into the unfamiliar.
Ladies, Psalm 37:23 reminds us of this truth: God does not simply observe our steps—He orders them. He directs, arranges, and establishes them with intention and purpose.
When God interrupts your plan, it’s because His plan is better.
His plan protects you.
His plan prepares you.
His plan positions you.
Reflective Question
Ladies, what in your life right now doesn’t look like what you planned — but may be the very place where God is ordering your next step?
Closing Prayer
Lord, help us as women to trust Your ordering of our steps, even when the path looks different from what we expected. Teach us to surrender our plans for Yours and to recognize Your hand in every shift, pause, and new beginning. Strengthen our hearts to follow You with confidence, knowing that every step You direct is filled with purpose and promise. Amen.
“But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.”
James 1:22 (KJV)
Ladies, so often in our walk with God, it becomes easy to get comfortable simply hearing the Scriptures—quoting verses, attending church, and knowing the right words to say. But James reminds us that hearing alone is not enough. We deceive ourselves when we stop at listening but never move into living what God has said.
The Bible makes it clear: believing is good, but obedience is the true mark of a disciple. Even demons believe—but they do not obey. What separates the sons and daughters of God is a life that reflects His Word daily.
A transformed life means:
If we find ourselves repeatedly falling into the same sin without true change, it may reveal that our hearts have not been fully transformed. Scripture teaches that we must be transformed by the renewing of our minds, not conformed to the old life we left behind.
When we gave our lives to Christ, we surrendered our right to live in sin. We became new creatures. Our desires, choices, habits, and lifestyles must reflect that new identity. When we choose our own way—knowing it leads us back into sin—we are only fooling ourselves.
The Word instructs us to examine ourselves to ensure we are truly in the faith. A disciple does not just hear God; a disciple obeys God.
Affirmation Today, I declare that I am a doer of His Word and not a hearer only.
“For with God nothing shall be impossible.”
Luke 1:37 (KJV)
Ladies, God wants you to bring every problem, issue, and challenge to Him. Not just the small things, but the situations that feel impossible, hopeless, or even dead. We serve a big God, and it’s time for us to take the limits off of Him.
What does that look like?
It means shifting your residency into the faith realm.
Are you willing to do that?
Your testimony from the day you first gave your life to Christ is powerful — but when was the last time you stretched your faith and believed God for something that seemed impossible?
Luke reminds us that with God nothing shall be impossible. It’s time to dust off the things you quietly labeled as hopeless and start believing again.
If we’re honest, many times the reason we don’t see the results we long for is because we tried to make it happen in our own strength. But with God, it is possible. Success is on the horizon when we trust Him and invite Him into every part of the process.
Affirmation Today, I take the limits off of God and believe Him for everything!
“O give thanks unto the LORD, for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.”
Psalm 107:1 (KJV)
Ladies, while we walk through the situations of life, it is vital that we maintain an attitude of thankfulness. With disappointments, sickness, relationship struggles, and financial concerns, being thankful is not always easy. If we are not careful, our hearts can drift toward frustration, blaming God, or questioning the direction our lives have taken.
But this Psalm brings us back to two unshakable truths:
1.The Lord is good.
2.His mercy endures forever.
Many women ask, “How do I give thanks when I’m dealing with the death of a loved one, the loss of a friendship, or the loss of something important to me?” The answer is not found in ignoring the pain — it’s found in remembering who God is.
Even in the middle of grief, loss, or disappointment, God is still good. Whether we are Christian or not, the Bible reminds us that He causes the rain to fall on the just and the unjust. Life happens to all of us, whether we agree with the season we are in or not. Yet through every high and low, one truth remains:
His mercy — His undeserved kindness — covers us daily. Even when we fail, fall short, or waver, His mercy stands firm. It doesn’t fade. It doesn’t expire. It endures forever.
As we navigate this season, let’s pause and remember how good and merciful our God truly is.
Affirmation: I will thank God in all situations and meditate on His goodness and mercy.
“Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised ; )”
Hebrews 10:23 (KJV)
It’s important to hold fast to the promises of God. We can be waiting for what seems to be such a long time that it feels as if it is never going to happen. But what do you do when it does happen?
We can become fearful and forfeit the blessings if we allow our emotions to dictate our actions. God wants us to remember that He is faithful and just. He will fulfill every promise that He has made.
When we feel doubt, we must arrest it and command our spirit to walk by faith. When we waver, it means we are unsure. James 1:8 says that a double-minded man is unstable in all his ways—that means in every way possible!
It’s time we walk in the full promises of God. Ladies, I encourage you to step out boldly and receive all that God has promised you!
Affirmation: Today, I choose to hold fast to what God has promised and spoken over my life. I will not waver. He is faithful that promised!
“And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.”
Galatians 6:9 (KJV)
Sometimes, while we are in our wilderness season, we can begin to feel overwhelmed by what we are experiencing. It may seem like this season is never going to end. We long for a way out — a new season or a new experience. It can feel like nothing is getting better, as if everything has become stagnant.
But it’s in those very moments that we must hold fast to the Word of God.
The enemy will try to deceive us into believing that doing the right thing — doing it God’s way — is pointless. That is a lie! The Word of God promises us that if we continue in well doing, we will reap in due season if we do not faint.
God desires us to be steadfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord.
“Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye stedfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.” — 1 Corinthians 15:58 KJV
Your obedience, your consistency, and your faith are not wasted. God sees every seed you have planted, every tear you’ve cried, and every sacrifice you’ve made.
Hold on and keep trusting Him. Everything you are doing is worth it — and God Himself will release the blessing at just the right time.
Affirmation: I command weariness to fall off in the name of Jesus, and I receive a fresh release of strength from the Lord so that I may reap my reward.
“Come unto Me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28 (KJV)
It’s easy to focus on the things that don’t seem to be going right in our lives. We often find ourselves fixating on the obstacles that hinder our progress, goals, or aspirations. The energy we spend doing that can easily become negative—because that same energy turns into stress.
We become stressed when events, people, or circumstances are not pleasing to us. But today, God wants us to be free of stress and anxiety and to flow in His freedom.
God wants to lighten our load and teach us to rest in Him. He wants us to put away the planners and calendars, to quiet the noise, and to ease off from calling all our friends to tell our problems. Instead, He wants us to seek Him—because in His presence there is peace, wisdom, and true rest.
His Word says, “He whom the Son hath set free is free indeed.” We are not bound, but free in the Lord—free to rest in Him and to trust Him with everything we are battling or struggling with. The enemy desires to see us tied up, stressed out, and emotional. But God says today, “I have set you free.”
Jesus equals freedom. Jesus equals rest. Let’s surrender to it!
Affirmation: Lord, forgive me for worrying and wrestling with my problems. I receive the freedom and rest of the Lord in Jesus’ name!
“But without faith it is impossible to please Him: for he that cometh to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him.”
Hebrews 11:6 (KJV)
Ladies, It's time to check our belief system! What are we really believing? Is it possible that we are not seeing the full manifestation of God’s promises in our lives because of a faulty belief system? Sometimes we believe the lie that we can’t do what God has commanded us to do, or that we are less than because of past mistakes or perceived failures. Many of us get caught up in simply trying to make it through each day rather than persevering in Christ Jesus and walking in excellence: as we trust God for everything!
There are moments when we must take our thoughts captive and examine them closely. Are our thoughts saying, “I am a failure,” or are they saying what Paul said in Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”? What we think, say, and believe determines how we live. God wants us to live in the realm of faith—not fear or doubt. Without faith—without complete trust and confidence in Him—it is impossible to please God.
We must believe that our heavenly Father is more than able to do exceedingly and abundantly above all we could ever ask or imagine. He is faithful! God wants us to rest in His peace, knowing that He can handle every situation we face. He is a prayer-answering God who has not forgotten about us! He doesn’t want us to be moved by circumstances or emotions, but He wants us to rely fully on Him and walk by faith every day!
So, ladies, this is your friendly reminder: pull down every thought of doubt and every lie that contradicts God’s Word : 2 Corinthians 10:5 confirms this! Let us replace fear with faith, and discouragement with confidence in who God is! Choose today to walk by faith—trusting, believing, and knowing that God is faithful to perform everything He has promised. He truly is a rewarder to those who continually seek Him! Keep seeking, trusting, and believing in Him!
Affirmation: Today I choose to walk and LIVE in faith. I choose to reject fear and doubt and rest in the confidence of Christ Jesus. Amen!
“Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.”
Psalm 27:14 (KJV)
Beautiful women of God, I want to encourage you today: don’t be moved by your circumstances! In times of confusion, frustration, or even aggravation, we must still choose to trust God. When life looks completely opposite of what God has shown you or what has been prophesied, that is the very moment you must hold fast to your faith and not let go!
David, the writer of this psalm, knew what it meant to be pursued by enemies and surrounded by trouble. Things didn’t work out the way he expected, yet he declared: “Though an host should encamp against me, my heart shall not fear: though war should rise against me, in this will I be confident.” (Psalm 27:3) David didn’t give up—he pressed deeper into his faith. He set his heart to remain in the presence of the Lord. Faith is not what we see; it is what we don’t see and still choose to believe. Many people let go too soon and abandon the dream, vision, or promise God revealed to them. But David shows us another way: he boldly instructs us to wait on the Lord and be of good courage. It takes courage to keep waiting. Yet as we wait, God promises to strengthen our hearts.
It won’t always be easy. Some people may walk away, even suggesting you missed God. But even then, you must still wait, believe, and hold fast to the promises of the Lord. He is faithful to accomplish everything He has spoken over your life! In verse 11 David humbly prays:“Teach me thy way, O Lord, and lead me in a plain path, because of mine enemies.” This is the key. While you are in the storm, what are you asking God? Are you asking Him to teach you His way and to keep your feet steady? Are you believing Him with your whole heart? Ladies, it’s time to snatch back your faith! Begin to thank the Father in advance. Ask Him to teach you His ways, to lead you on the plain path, and to give you courage to wait. Don’t move—stand firm, and trust Him to bring it to pass!
So then neither is he that planteth any thing, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase..
1 Corinthians 3:7 (KJV)
Ladies, in our lives there are so many circumstances and situations to deal with on a continual basis. From family challenges, to workplace struggles, from personal concerns, to relationships, we are often bombarded daily. Many of us naturally step into the role of "problem solver"—we see the problem, we want to fix it, and we come up with a solution.
However, when we came to Christ and accepted Him as Lord and Savior, we essentially signed on the dotted line that He is in charge! The truth is, many of us still wrestle with surrendering. We have such a deep desire to see our children, our loved ones, and those we care about become set free, saved, and delivered. Paul reminds us in this chapter of Corinthians: it is God who gives the increase!
Increase means growth, enlargement, or progress. And while we may plant seeds or water them with prayer and encouragement, only God brings the true growth! What may take you two weeks to grasp may take someone else a year. God calls us to patience and faith while He works.
Philippians 4:6–7 teaches us: “Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.” Our part is to pray, trust, give thanks, and believe that the seeds we’ve planted will grow in God’s timing.
We cannot force anyone to make the right decisions. It’s not our nagging, pleading, or worrying that changes hearts—it is God who brings results! While He is at work, we must show love and compassion instead of judgment.
Always remember this: we don’t have all the answers. God often works through others as well, and we may never see the full picture. Just as the body of Christ is made of many parts, each playing a vital role, our part is equally important: to faithfully sow, water, and then step back in full confidence and trust in God!
So today, let’s release the pressure! Let’s remind ourselves daily: “It’s God who gives the increase.” Our job is to believe, love, and stay faithful—and let God do it!
So they inquired again of the Lord, “Is there a man still to come?” and the Lord said, “Behold, he has hidden himself among the baggage.”
1 Samuel 10:22 (ESV)
In this season, God wants us to stop hiding! In 1 Samuel 10:22, Saul, who was chosen to be King of Israel, was attempting to avoid his selection as king; and was hiding among the baggage. It is important to note that while the people were not able to locate where Saul was, God knew!
God knows when, where, how and why we are choosing to conceal ourselves from His plan. We have to remember that God loves us and is trying to help us! He wants us to stop using excuses and situations to hide ourselves, because it stops us from going forth with the things that the Lord has ordained. Some of us may be asking why God is allowing certain unpleasant, uncomfortable and challenging situations to exist in our lives? Our Father is doing this because He is creating exposure to the issues: in order to get to the core and root of them! The Lord wants to heal us from past hurts, traumas and disappointments; which some of us have converted into "baggage"! God is revealing to us what our “baggage” is so we can be healed, rise up from it and come forth!
So another question may arise: why did you choose me? This is basically the question that Saul asked Samuel in 1 Samuel 9:21. That question in reality is irrelevant. The fact is: He did choose you! Furthermore, God is equipping, anointing and preparing you for your next… because you are His choice!
Like the prophet Samuel, please allow me to speak prophetically the following into your life: You are God’s choice! God desires for you to go forth with boldness and confidence in Him! He is with you, and is fighting for you! God is more than the issues and challenges that attempt to work against you! God wants you to go full throttle! When the spirit of fear shows up, God is encouraging you to elevate your faith and trust in Him! Trust Him even when you don’t feel secure about the plan! Instead of hiding behind our issues, let’s hide ourselves in Him! Let me say this one more time Ladies, you are God’s choice in this season… Come Forth!
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